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Hmmm... people I am not gonna write about this play of Shakespeare in this post....
I guess this must come as a sigh of relief for most who dont want to revise their knowledge of this very popular play.....
To cut the crap short, lemme come to the point.....
This article means coming out of oblivion for me as I am writing something on my blog after a long time... and guess what - somebody else's post inspired me to shed my laziness and write about nothing else but what - our very own friend Mr.Love........
Well, well, well - pls dont go away.... I promise i would try and make this post as different as it ever could have been......
You know what - I dont believe in most schools of thought about Love.... I believe Love is nothing but a 'STATE OF MIND'....... Love is a feeling, u feel that you are in Love...... But its a transient state of mind, a state of convenience... a state of dreamsssssss.
Love changes as per the phases of life... the reason for me loving a girl in school ws not the same for my loving a girl in college... and now, when i am at a stage of life where my folks are constantly after me to get me married, my reason for love would be different I guess...
If you like a person for a lot of things, you are likely to fall in love with her.... Coz at that point of time, you start to feel that she is the best you can get..... and it also could be that you like the time you spend with her...
But then, as life moves on and priorities change, she just might not fit in your scheme of things for reasons not attributed to her...
So, then what happens to LOVE......
Probably you move on from there, leaving that girl behind.... move ahead a few steps , a few months, a few years and to tell you what ---- here is another girl who just fits the billl......
Well, to be very frank I never have really understood LOVE for a girl........
I think its an arrangement between two people........ This arrangement is based on certain assumptions and certain expectations... The day a mismatch happens, LOVE goes for a walk.....
I always believe that some day I would find a girl who fits the bill perfectly.....
People, I have to leave now and try and find out whats the bill :P
So, keep thinking..... Hope to write something more as my understanding increases...
AS YOU LIKE IT........... Hope you liked the posttttttt atleast.........
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Have to agree with you to a little extent..though its a rather sorry picture of Love that you draw here...
I would like to believe love cannot be one sided...Love is going thru that state of mind when you like some one and you are being liked back...where the passion, attraction is if not equal, at least simultaneous... once that is gone from one side..what the other person is left with is not love...
all those one sided feelings u probabably have had...in school college etc. were all crushes not love...
Agreed the parameters of your probable crush change... You move onto a more interesting crush who fits your changed bills...but you can't say love changes like that...
Hey ya
Hmm...interesting..well people handle and treat the same situation differently..so I guess the love factor again hold different meaning for every one. But one thing is common, and that is, It sure makes your heart beat a lil faster.
Got linked to your blog through the vast web.
Poigant (sp?) Looks like you have been unlucky in love lately ? Have you?
hey.. interesting work.. just thru wid a couple of ur posts.. nice flow of thoughts.. well done.. :)
Hi Amit couldn't help commenting on this lovely topic.
These days its fashionable to see just the variables in all aspects of the life.
Concentrate on the constants to decide about love.
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